Hello and welcome to "A Day in the Life of..."©, a featured guest post exclusive to my blog that's published on Mondays and sometimes, on Thursdays. On these two days, a spotlight guest will share a normal day in their lives, giving us insight on their thoughts, projects, interests, obsessions and more. Occasionally, and if we're lucky, they'll even throw in a giveaway.
And now on with the show...
ABOUT A.G. DOW
A.G. Dow is the author of In Dreams, a short story featured
in the Wicked East Press Anthology, Wicked Bag of Fantasy Tales. Being a lover
of books, she is more than happy to read and review them over on the Juniper
Grove Blog, run by author Jaidis Shaw.
Dow is currently working on her first full-length novel, The Shadow Man,
in hopes of releasing it by year end!
A.G. Dow currently resides in central N.H. with her super
supportive husband and their beautiful, wonderfully creative young daughter.
Connect with A.G. Dow
A Day in the Life: A.G. Dow
Being a stay-at-home mom with a calendar full of play-dates,
family get-togethers and a mountain of errands to run, I don’t really have a
structured schedule that I follow. But, I do try to follow a typical flow
pattern, a way of getting through the day if you will…and that’s what I’ll be
sharing with you all today!
9:30 AM- Time to rise and
shine! I’ve been asleep all of two, three, maybe four hours, so I’m certainly
not looking forward to getting myself up and out of my warm, cozy bed. The AC
has been running on high all night and I’m beyond exhausted, making it even
harder for me to resist sneaking in another hour’s worth of napping…But, I have
no choice. When my four and a half year old daughter bounces out of bed, it’s
then my turn to do the same! Though, for me it’s more of a rolling process.
10:30 AM- Breakfast! Yes,
it actually takes us about an hour to wake up and settle into our routine. My
daughter has been running at full speed since the moment her eyes opened this
morning, but I have yet to de-zombify myself which only means one thing…Time
for that pot of coffee! While that’s brewing, the food is served and the music
has been turned on! We like to start off with some singing and dancing; it’s
fun and helps set the mood for the rest of our day.
10:45AM- My daughter has
taken a break and is busy munching away, trying to get through her breakfast
quickly so she can go back to performing. I now have a big mug of pure
happiness in hand and sit down at the computer to check in with my emails and
various social sites. It takes a surprising amount of time to look through and
reply back to my messages and notifications but apparently not enough, because
now it’s time for some Pinterest. Such an awful site, stealing away my precious
time by sucking me in with all of its magical DIY and crafting wonders, but
there’s still a cup of coffee left in that pot so I may as well spend a few
more minutes pinning while I finish up!
11:30AM- By now I’m doing
the housewife thing, cleaning up and getting things in order. Well, kind of. I
start off doing that and always have the best intentions of finishing right
away, but then get distracted by one thing or another and end up with a bunch
of half-done projects going on throughout the house. I suppose it doesn’t help
much that as I’m going along cleaning my daughter is doing her best to destroy
all evidence of me doing any such thing. I’m starting to think she’s out to get
me and she just may, she’s that good. So, with some cleaning done and a little
more left to do, it’s now time to get us dressed and ready to leave!
1:30PM- We’re finally
ready to get out of the house! Time for a visit with friends or family,
something we do very often. I love staying connected and seeing those I care
about, so 80% of the time my daughter and I are busy being social butterflies.
I realize this seems awful, us out and about having fun while my husband is
stuck at work six days a week, but really our social time is needed and
beneficial to all of us. My daughter is very outgoing and enjoys interacting with
her little buddies and partaking in whatever adventure we have planned for
ourselves that day. And me, well if I’m stuck here in this house for too long I
go stir crazy and end up being one unhappy camper…and no one wants to deal with
that.
4:30PM- It’s been a few
hours so by now I’ll try to pack up and say our good-byes, then head off with
my mini-me to do some grocery shopping and most likely make a trip to Michael’s
or the Dollar Tree so we can pick up a few crafting supplies. I have a hard
enough time staying away from those stores but when she’s with me, it’s even
harder. So why fight it? Again, being creative keeps us girls happy which then
keeps the hubby happy. It’s a win/win for everyone!
5:30PM- And we’re back!
Grocery shopping always takes far longer than I’d like it to but we got what we
needed and we’re done with for the day! Of course, just like every other time
that I run errands I come home only to realize that I had forgotten a few
things that were on my list and will have to go back tomorrow. Oh joy. Now it’s
time to finish cleaning up, or at least get things out of the way so my husband
can walk through the door without stepping on any of my daughter’s fabulous
toys…You know, all 967 of them, sprawled across every floor and doorway in this
place.
6:05- The hubby is home!
I’m pretty sure this is my daughter’s favorite part of the day and I’m guessing
my husband’s too! It’s time to relax and hang out as a family, catch up on how
each other’s day went and settle down with some grub that someone else has most
likely prepared. I can cook and I used to all the time, but we hardly ever eat
the same things so it has become easier to order out on most nights. I know,
I’m ashamed…I’ll start cooking homemade meals again real soon, swear. After we fill
ourselves up, my husband crashes on the couch for a bit, resting up after a
very long day and I head over to the computer to check Facebook and such, yet
again. There are messages to respond to, people to chat with, and mindless
things to waste time looking at…that sort of thing. My daughter is in her
playroom keeping busy, giving me plenty of false hope that I might actually be
able to get some work done. There are books I need to finish reading and a
review that’s waiting to be completed, oh and my writing. I could always open
that up and add a page or two. I could, but I won’t be. She’s excellent at
picking up the scent of productivity and will come running out of her room,
making as much noise as possible until I stop what I’m doing and turn myself over
to her. I should know better, happens every time.
8:00PM- Us girls have been
passing the time with a couple buckets of crayons and a large stack of coloring
books. It has taken me almost an hour to complete just one of my pictures while
she has gone through the entire book, making sure to rip out every page and
hang them all on the fridge. Now
that she’s run out of room for her multitude of masterpieces, it’s time to move
on to something else. Writing! Not my writing, but hers and I’m more than ok
with that. She’s all about learning and right now her big thing is learning to
write, to spell out words and put them together in cute little sentences. She
may not be able to read, aside from the few words she has memorized, but she
really is doing a great job with her writing. When she’s done and if it’s early
enough, we’ll try to get in another project before bedtime. If not, I’ll set
her up with a movie or show to watch, usually something on Sprout (I love that
channel for little ones!) and try to get her to wind down for the night.
10:00PM- My husband has
been up long enough and is ready to get to bed! Next up, our daughter! Now that
is guaranteed to be easier said than done because just like me, she will try
anything to keep from going to sleep! An hour later, after many, many trips to
the bathroom and all kinds blanket issues, she has finally drifted off to
dreamland. Yes!! I can now stay up as late *yawn* as I need to in order to get
things done.
12:00AM- At last, it’s
“ME” time! The house is a tad too quiet for my liking so I usually put on the
TV for some background noise. If I’m looking to veg then I’ll put on one of my
shows and zone out while dubbing around online. Sometimes I’m in the mood to
craft, so I’ll do that while the rest of the house sleeps and I’m free to do my
thing. But mostly it means that I now have time to sit down and write! I’ll turn on Soundscapes, a channel of
pretty cool, very “new-age-y” music that helps to keep my mind focused and the
ideas flowing. I know I’m supposed to be writing, and I am, but I do end up
checking in on Facebook every so often to chat with a close author friend of
mine who also happens to be a fellow night owl. Most will see that as a
distraction but really it’s not. Helps to break things up a bit and super helpful
when I need to bounce a few ideas around, to see what will and won’t work in my
storyline.
And that’s pretty much how I spend my nights. I try to write
whenever I can and on the nights when my head and heart just aren’t into it, I
pick up one of the three books I’m currently reading and dive in! The hours
pass by quickly and before I know it my husband is awake and getting ready for
another crazy day at work. I lost
count of how many times I have told myself I would get to bed earlier, and yet
here am again well after 5:00am and still wide awake! May as well stay up a
little later and finish what I’m doing…I can always start on that new, normal
schedule I’ve been hearing about, tomorrow.
Thank you, A.G., for sharing your day with us and thank you, readers for taking the time to stop by. I hope that you've enjoyed today's
Thank you A.G. for sharing your day with us! I can relate too so much of that being a stay-at-home mom as well!
ReplyDeleteHappy to share, Jaidis! Thanks so much for checking it out! Yes, you are definitely all too familiar with the stay-at-home mom lifestyle! ;)
DeleteThank you for Sharing you day and for the awesome giveaway!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome, Ashley! Good luck in the giveaway :) Thank you!!
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ReplyDeleteThank you, Marina! I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
ReplyDeleteLoved the post! Your daughter is adorable A.G.! <3 It's nice to see how other authors spend their time. I have some major time management problems that I need to work on...LOL Thanks for the giveaway!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Cameo! I think she's pretty cute too! ;) Time management, what's that? hehe...It's all about winging it and hoping to have a productive moment or two thrown into the mix! LoL...Thanks again and Good luck! :)
DeleteBusy day!!! Sounds like a Stay at home/work at home mom too me!
ReplyDeleteIt sure feels that way, Tina! ;) Thanks a bunch for checking out my post! Good luck with the giveaway! :)
Deletei love your daughter a g and i love you too thanks for this givaway
ReplyDeleteYou're very welcome, Bia Bianca! Thank you for your very sweet words :) Best of luck in the giveaway!
DeleteYour daughter is a cutie!! Thanks so much for sharing your day and for this great giveaway!!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Joella! I gotta say, I think she is too ;) Thank you for stopping by and checking out my post!! Good luck in the giveaway!
DeleteSounds like your life is very busy and eventful I miss my kids being little Thanks for the great giveaway
ReplyDeleteMost of the time it is, but we've grown used to it :) Just have to enjoy it while it lasts because they really do grow up far too fast! Thanks so much for checking out my post!! :)
DeleteAh the hectic life of an author :) Never a dull moment!
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